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Thursday, June 08, 2006

Words for a Friend

This is a very special message. A beloved friend of mine, at 4 ½ months of pregnancy, unexpectedly lost her baby. There are not many words to say in situations like this, but I found a phrase that I would like to share and dedicate to her.

Love Message

MBM R.I.P

(Although probably do not know my AIESEC friend personally, please feel free to leave your comments here. I am sure if she reads this posting she will appreciate your kind words and support. Thanks!)

posted by iGnacio at Thursday, June 08, 2006

13 Comments:

  • Hi girl,
    We will never have full understanding of why some of this things happen to us. What we do know is that there are angels around us keeping us safe and smiling down on us. As you go through this difficult moment take comfort in the knowledge that your little one has joined this team will always be there watching over you. Sending you a huuuuugggeeee warm hug and God's comfort.

    By Blogger pilli, at June 08, 2006 2:33 PM  

  • Be strong, there are many things in life that cant be explained, just have to leave it to the hands of god and trust that there is a plan behind all that is happening.

    Take care!

    By Blogger Ying, at June 08, 2006 6:54 PM  

  • I wish I knew the right things to say or tell you how the hurting would go away but I don't. Everything happens for a reason, including one's pain and suffering. Time will make it better, for now stay strong.

    By Blogger aditi, at June 09, 2006 10:09 AM  

  • I'm at a loss for words so I won't even try. The one consolidation is that your baby has gotten to heaven before you and will be waiting for you there.
    A prayer for you to find peace in the midst of the storm.

    By Blogger Devrim, at June 09, 2006 12:19 PM  

  • may peace, warmth and time be with you..

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 09, 2006 3:15 PM  

  • I just prayed for you and your baby, I wish you all the strength that you need at the moment...

    You have a little angel looking after you in heaven,

    You are in my thoughts and prayers,

    Maria

    By Blogger Maria, at June 09, 2006 3:44 PM  

  • was trying to figure out what to say - but the only thing I know is this poem...I dont know whether its fits:

    Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
    I am not there; I do not sleep.
    I am a thousand winds that blow.
    I am the diamond glints on snow.
    I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
    When you awaken in the morning's hush
    I am the swift uplifting rush
    Of quiet birds in circled flight.
    I am the soft stars that shine at night.
    Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
    I am not there. I did not die.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 09, 2006 5:39 PM  

  • I know of this great book that helped my family.
    "A Broken Heart Still Beats" by
    Anne McCracken & Mary Semel

    It is a collection of stories and essays to help you understand this situation and then rebuilt your life after this situation.

    The love of your baby will always be with you.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 09, 2006 5:42 PM  

  • My thoughts and prayers are with you...may God be with you here on earth to give you peace, refuge and strength as He is with your little one up in heaven.

    xox all my love and hugs

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 10, 2006 11:32 AM  

  • My mom lost a baby at around the same time in her pregnancy when I was 7. It was such a very painful experience and I will never forget how sad my whole family was. The doctors said her chances to have another baby were slim, but a few months later she was pregnant again and nine months later my incredible brother was born.

    When I saw this post it made me think back on the pain of this experience and it made me realize for the first time that if it weren't for this painful experience, my incredible brother would have never been born. My advice that I can give you in this painful time is this- When god closes one door, he opens another.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 11, 2006 1:06 AM  

  • Not all our loved ones would be with us forever. Cherish the time you have spent together. I think that is all counts.

    May the force be with you.

    By Blogger Vega, at June 12, 2006 8:48 PM  

  • hi, I can tell you that there is no words to comfort the felling I have been there turst me but we need to think that god made things happen for reasons that we may not understand but it is for the better so try to chear up think that that baby problably wasnt ment to have a good life in this word and thats why someone decided to take it to a betther place, you will have the oportunity to try again like me and then it will be great but do not be afraid to try it again someone told me that the good side in this kind of situation is that at least know we can be pregnant and have them. Have faith, trust in god and lay on your parther, cry with him, men usally do not want to ttak aobut it and they want to be strong for us but they also need some confort so share this sadness with him and togheter you will find the streigh to keep going. good luck

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at June 13, 2006 3:59 AM  

  • Dear Friends, thank you for all the comments you post for my friend. She told me she has read them and she felt touched by your love and support. Gracias!

    By Blogger Nacho, at June 18, 2006 12:28 PM  

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